Monday, December 28, 2009
Christmas
Friday, December 18, 2009
Speaking of Cooper, I feel remiss in not having posted more pictures by now. The above pic was taken in Ethiopia. I actually have taken very few since getting home. Until yesterday, there hasn't been much laughter or many smiles. Chicken pox have a way of doing that to a kid, I think. Two nights ago, Chad and I were at our wits end trying to make him comfortable. We have never seen a person writhe in pain and itchiness the way he was. He was exhausted but could not sleep, trying to scratch all the places that itched like a crazy person. We resorted to an oatmeal bath in the kitchen sink. Mind you, Cooper screams when we bathe him. This was obviously our last ditch effort in helping him. True to form, he screamed for the first seven minutes of the bath. Then he learned how to splash...and seemed much happier. We covered every square inch of him in calamine lotion, and he slept fitfully for a few hours. I am so happy to say he has slept through the night IN HIS CRIB two nights in a row! He is now one big scab.:)
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Home!
Our airport reunion was such a happy time! Chad's sister, Heather, took lots of photos of our airport saga, but I don't have access to them at the moment. I'll leave the details to your imaginations, but there were a lot of wet eyes! The kids were all standing at the edge of the security area, and when H saw us, he took off running across the line, right into my arms. Many embraces and photos later, we went with both sets of our parents, Meg and TJ, and Grandmas Spore and Machovec to a restaurant along I-80. With threats of freezing rain and very droopy eyelids, I drove the two hours to our home. It is wonderful to be here!
Cooper woke up in the night with some crazy bumps all over his body. Upon further examination, our diagnosis is chicken pox. He is really doing well, though....not scratching, no fever.....maybe a light case? He looks like a little polka-dotted guy because of all the calamine lotion I have dabbed on his sores. Please pray with me that Chad doesn't get chicken pox. He's never had them and has not had the vaccine. I think Cooper will be on the mend soon. It was a bummer to head to church without him and Chad this morning.
There is so much to be said about our trip that I haven't had a chance to say. My eyelids are totally drooping as we speak, so more details will have to wait. BTW, have I mentioned we are so happy to be HOME?!
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Update from Ethiopia
Our three days here so far have been eventful. We really thought we would not be able to fly home this Friday, and we were pretty disappointed. C's 6th birthday is Monday, and it looked like we were not going to get home until one week from today! God moved a major mountain yesterday, and we found out we could book our tickets for Friday night!!! Our travel agent had tickets on hold for us until last night, and we found out in the early evening we should be able to get Cooper's visa on Friday! We are soooooo thankful!!!!!
We are headed to lunch, a lion zoo, and shopping this afternoon. T, our guide, is an exceptional English speaker and Christian man. He has done such a great job showing us around all the places we have needed to go.
Sounds like everyone at home is getting lots of snow. I never thought I'd say this, but I sure am ready to don my winter coat! Home sounds like paradise right now. I'll try to update again when the connection allows.
Love,
Heidi
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Addis Ababa
We are safe, and we will write more later!
Saturday, December 5, 2009
3 o'clock
Cooper is doing so well. He sleeps between Chad and me every night, and he usually wants a bottle sometime in the wee hours of the morning. When he whimpered a little this morning, Chad got up to get him a bottle. I just pulled him close to me, and he snuggled right in and went back to sleep. Such a cuddler. Can't wait for you to meet him!
I guess I am going to have to climb back in bed for a couple hours. Thanks again for your continued prayers!
Rwandan Safari
The early morning 2 hr drive to the park was beautiful. At one point we had climbed in elevation enough that the clouds were below us in the valleys. When we arrived at the park, a group of three Rwandans that grew up in Canada were having car troubles. Since we were short three (due to illness) we offered them to come with us. We got to observe giraffes, impalas, zebras, oribi, Nile monitor lizards, water buffalos, hippos, and various species of birds. Unforunately, we did not see any cebu. We learned that the lions at the park were killed during the genocide but that if you come for the night safari you can see leopards, spotted hyenas, and other preditors. We had a great view of Lake Ihema. The park borders Tanzania, which we could see across the lake.
We ended the day with a celebration at Nyanja's home. Unforunately, Heidi was still too sick to come. It was be an fun evening of food, fellowship, and dancing. Nyanja had a Rwandan dance group in her backyard doing traditional Rwandese dances. Nyanja's mother showed all the ladies how to wrap their kids on their back. Since Heidi was not there Nyanja's mother wrapped Cooper on her back, which he actually enjoyed!
(Ghost Blogger - Chad)
Please Pray for Me
Just a quick note to ask you to pray for me. I am feeling so sick right now. I sent Chad and Cooper with the safari group, but I stayed back at the hotel to try to feel better. Well, I feel better after every time I hug the porcelain. Then my stomach starts to hurt bad again a little later. Please pray I'll be able to keep some fluids down and feel better soon.
Thank you so much!
Heidi
Friday, December 4, 2009
A Successful Day
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Thursday
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
The New Cooper
Today we also saw glimpses of what Cooper's life could have been. We visited the place he was abandoned at around 10 days of age. It was a nice neighborhood whose people obviously have more than many in Rwanda. What would his life have been like if someone had not left him there? Would his life have been a happy one, riding on his mother's back while she went about her daily tasks? Would she have struggled to keep him well? Would he have gone hungry? We believe his mother made quite a sacrifice when she abandoned him there, knowing she was leaving him in a place someone would find and help him. Without this sacrifice, we would have never met our sweet little boy. We would never have had the privilege to raise him to know about God's great love for him, about Jesus's ultimate sacrifice for each of us. Yes, his life and ours would be much different.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Homemade Pizza

Monday, November 30, 2009
Gotcha Day! Officially
As I write this blog our son is sleeping in our bed. Today was an amazing day that started early with getting Cooper from HOH and applying for his passport and ended with a "To Whom It May Concern" letter in our hands that meant that Cooper could remain with us forever.
There were some neat answers to prayer along the way today as well. From our POA convincing the Immigration office to process all of our children's passports by Friday, to the Minister being in her office this afternoon, to hearing that several families just got referrals on the same day that 6 Rwandan children were officially adopted into their forever families, God has remained faithful.
There is still much to be done and experienced on our journey, but we will sleep soundly tonight with Cooper next to us knowing full well that God has amazing things planned for us!
(Ghost blogger - Chad)
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Today
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Washington DC
On Our Way

Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Leaving Soon!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Inheritance
Yesterday Chad and I were talking about what would change at the moment the judge made this decision. At that moment, Cooper went from owning absolutely nothing to being joint heirs with our other four children. At that moment, he went from having no one to call his own to having a Mommy and Daddy, two sisters and two brothers, two grandmas, two grandpas, four great-grandmas, two great-grandpas, four aunties, five uncles, eight cousins, way too many second cousins to mention, and a church family who has sacrificially given and prayed for him for months!
During this entire adoption process, we have seen many parallels with what God has done for us when He adopts us as His children. I think we saw the strongest, most beautiful parallel as we were talking about Cooper's inheritance. At the moment each of us accepts Jesus' forgiveness for our sins, we are grafted into God's forever family. We go from being spiritually bankrupt and destitute to being joint heirs with Jesus Christ!
And today, Chad and I have gained a son. We are humbled and amazed that God chose us to love this beautiful baby boy. It is possible we will leave as soon as this Thursday to go get our son. Please pray we can get plane tickets!
Monday, November 9, 2009
Spore Seven!!!
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Referral Coming SOON
This morning I told Chad I was reaching my breaking point. Isn't it just like God to know where that breaking point is, bring me right up to the edge of it, and come through in an amazing way?! I would imagine my next post will be filled with some wonderful news. Stay tuned....
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween Fun
It seems like just yesterday I made my first blog post....last Halloween! We had a fun evening trick-or-treating with friends. Our robot had to shed his costume after the first three blocks, as he had trouble keeping up with our baby, crayon, and lion. Now we have a kitchen full of neatly sorted candy. I'm hoping I can stay out if it, especially the Almond Joy and Mounds bars (which no one else in the family likes).
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Micah
It's shocking to me to think about this scenario happening in our family: our nine year old son healthy tonight, sleeping soundly in his bed, waking up tomorrow morning not knowing what day it is or how to get dressed, being rushed to the regional children's hospital, knowing something is terribly wrong. Our world would be rocked! What a reminder to me this has been of the fragility of our lives and our dependence upon our Creator for each breath. How thankful I am that (as the song says) "He knows my name. He knows my every thought. He sees the tears I cry and hears me when I call."
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Please Pray for Micah
Friday, October 23, 2009
All Smiles
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
No News
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Natalie Kate and Pennsylvania
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Today's a Gift
Our C-Man turns 9!
Birthday Party after football with half the family. (First party canceled because of H1N1.) Agh!
H and C having some fun in the yard
H with his famous mustache from flavored water

