I'm pretty sure we've never been away from one of our kids on their birthday. Two years ago we very nearly missed Carlie's birthday, but we got home with Cooper two days before. So today, as Carlie celebrates her 8th birthday without us, I'm feeling sad. This being away from the five to bring home the two is so very hard. I'm feeling the ache of empty arms.
I'm a mommy without her birthday girl, but when I think of it I realize there are a lot of birthday girls without their mommies today. Today I'll choose to embrace 25 little girls who long for a mommy....and then my arms maybe won't ache so badly.
Carlie, I can't wait to have you in my lap reading a Christmas story together. Happy birthday, sweet girl.
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Worship - Uganda Style
Today we got the oppotunity to worship with fellow believers in Uganda at the church at GSF. All of the kids, aunties, staff, and people from surrounding villages came to worhsip together. In additon there were people from at least 4 different countries.
Heidi and I enjoyed singing, clapping, and even dancing to songs in both English and Luganda. Sometime is was difficult to know which language we were singing. Gene, who is part of the other couple adopting from GSF with us, spoke. It was fun to experience a different style of worship than we typically experience back home in Iowa. Probably the highlight was having Caleb in our arms during the whole service with other GSF kids on either side of us.
Heidi and I also got the chance to experience dinner and bed at the baby house. It included eating, crying, pottying, singing, dressing in PJ's, g-nuts, playing, and finally bed. We were amazed at how the Aunties do that routine each night for 8 toddlers. I guess we will have 7 kids in our family bedtime routine. Thankfully only 3 of them will be that age.
Tomorrow we head back to Kampala for physicals and TB test readings. It should be easier than Friday since it will not include any shots. Convincing the kids of that might be difficult though.
Heidi and I enjoyed singing, clapping, and even dancing to songs in both English and Luganda. Sometime is was difficult to know which language we were singing. Gene, who is part of the other couple adopting from GSF with us, spoke. It was fun to experience a different style of worship than we typically experience back home in Iowa. Probably the highlight was having Caleb in our arms during the whole service with other GSF kids on either side of us.
Heidi and I also got the chance to experience dinner and bed at the baby house. It included eating, crying, pottying, singing, dressing in PJ's, g-nuts, playing, and finally bed. We were amazed at how the Aunties do that routine each night for 8 toddlers. I guess we will have 7 kids in our family bedtime routine. Thankfully only 3 of them will be that age.
Tomorrow we head back to Kampala for physicals and TB test readings. It should be easier than Friday since it will not include any shots. Convincing the kids of that might be difficult though.
Friday, December 9, 2011
IOM and Embassy
Another trip to the city, another big day, another tired mama. TB tests were given, children were very unhappy about it, and the tests will be read Monday. We stopped by the embassy to check on what we will need for our appointment and found out we will need to have family members present for the visa interview. This could really be difficult, so we will once again ask you all to pray and we are already praising Him for how he will move these mountains.
Tomorrow is Saturday, and I am thankful there will be no trip to the city. Chad stayed here at the orphanage today, and he forged friendships with many kids....particularly two boys named Brian and Henry who very much enjoy Chad's Star Wars characters voices. I'm certain there's no way I'll be able to match his popularity, but I'll have more time tomorrow to spend with kids.
We are still really uncertain about our return trip. It seems as if there is still a slight possibility we could travel home with the kids and arrive Christmas Eve. Claudia has agreed to travel to the US with one of us and the kids if the other one of us needs to come home earlier. My feelings are all over the board on this, with fragments of my heart in Iowa and other fragments in Uganda. The protective walls I constructed around my heart are crumbling with each day spent with Caleb and Hannah. Leaving them here will be difficult, and leaving Chad would be even harder.
We are going to eat some supper soon, and then we will have dessert and a movie with the Gwartney family. I'm looking forward to that and a good night's rest.
Tomorrow is Saturday, and I am thankful there will be no trip to the city. Chad stayed here at the orphanage today, and he forged friendships with many kids....particularly two boys named Brian and Henry who very much enjoy Chad's Star Wars characters voices. I'm certain there's no way I'll be able to match his popularity, but I'll have more time tomorrow to spend with kids.
We are still really uncertain about our return trip. It seems as if there is still a slight possibility we could travel home with the kids and arrive Christmas Eve. Claudia has agreed to travel to the US with one of us and the kids if the other one of us needs to come home earlier. My feelings are all over the board on this, with fragments of my heart in Iowa and other fragments in Uganda. The protective walls I constructed around my heart are crumbling with each day spent with Caleb and Hannah. Leaving them here will be difficult, and leaving Chad would be even harder.
We are going to eat some supper soon, and then we will have dessert and a movie with the Gwartney family. I'm looking forward to that and a good night's rest.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
A Big Day
Today was the day we’ve been waiting and praying for a long time. There was a beautiful fog in the valley this morning as we waited for the kids to be brought to us at the guest house. It’s hard to describe the emotions we felt as their forms became clear through the fog. The auntie was carrying Hannah, and little Caleb was toddling behind. It felt like the first day of the rest of our lives!
We changed the kids into the special clothes we had chosen for this occasion, and then we took off in the van for the two hour journey to the city. We had great and high hopes for a flawless court appearance and quick ruling. The judge heard our case and has asked for more evidence of their story, but he also said he would have our ruling available on Friday, December 16. That is really quick for a wait for the ruling, so we are thanking God.
The rest of the day was spent getting the kids ready for their medical exams and visa processing to come. We were all exhausted when we arrived back at the guest house. Even now, I’m falling asleep at the keyboard.
So, I ask you to please pray for clarity for Chad and me about whether or not to expend our stay to try to finish things up. We miss our five kids at home so much! Also please keep praying for a Christmas miracle for the kids to be able to come home with us before Christmas.
I’ll try to post some pictures of our adventures (including eating a fried grasshopper) later. And now I need sleep….
We changed the kids into the special clothes we had chosen for this occasion, and then we took off in the van for the two hour journey to the city. We had great and high hopes for a flawless court appearance and quick ruling. The judge heard our case and has asked for more evidence of their story, but he also said he would have our ruling available on Friday, December 16. That is really quick for a wait for the ruling, so we are thanking God.
The rest of the day was spent getting the kids ready for their medical exams and visa processing to come. We were all exhausted when we arrived back at the guest house. Even now, I’m falling asleep at the keyboard.
So, I ask you to please pray for clarity for Chad and me about whether or not to expend our stay to try to finish things up. We miss our five kids at home so much! Also please keep praying for a Christmas miracle for the kids to be able to come home with us before Christmas.
I’ll try to post some pictures of our adventures (including eating a fried grasshopper) later. And now I need sleep….
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Court Tomorrow
Thank you for praying for us while we are here in Uganda. Heidi and I would like to specifically ask you to pray for us tomorrow as we go to court in Kampala. We are scheduled to be there at 10:30 AM (1:30 AM CST). We ask that you pray for the following:
- Sleep tonight for Heidi, me, Caleb, and Hannah (and another family that is here adopting)
- The car ride to and from Kampala (2-2.5 hrs each way) with our kids
- Everyone who needs to be at court would show up
- The judge would provide a favorable ruling to both us and the other family with us.
- The judge would issue his ruling on the same day (rarely ever happens but we will need it in order to have an chance or bringing Caleb and Hannah home with us in 2 weeks
- God would be glorified through this whole process
As for an update, we got to spend some time today with Caleb and Hannah at their baby house. We were able to hold them, read books, play games, take them on a walk (with the rest of the kids in the house) and I even got pottied on by Hannah. We also met a ton of kids, helpers, and one of the missionary families. There are names of kids swirling around in our heads and we are trying our best to keep them all straight.
Thank you again for your prayers and we hope to have good news to share with you tomorrow.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
We Have Arrived
After 4 flights, 18 hrs of airtime, an 8 hr time change, and a 2 1/2 hr car ride we safely made it to Good Shepard's Fold (GSF) near Jinja, Uganda. All our flights were on time, our baggage made it safely through to Entebbe airport, and the 4 blocks of cheese we packed stayed cold.
However the highlight of our trip was arriving at GSF around 7 PM and having Caleb and Hannah placed onto our laps as we pulled up while the other kids greated us with song and welcomes. We got to spend about an hour with Caleb and Hannah and we have fell instantly in love with them. (pictures to come in the coming days)
After taking them back to their house for bedtime, we enjoyed some dinner with another couple that is also adopting from GSF, one of their set of parents, and Claudia. After much awaited showers, we are now settling in under our mosquitoe nets and listening to strange new animal calls outside as we quickly fell asleep.
Thank you for all who have prayed for our safe arrival.
However the highlight of our trip was arriving at GSF around 7 PM and having Caleb and Hannah placed onto our laps as we pulled up while the other kids greated us with song and welcomes. We got to spend about an hour with Caleb and Hannah and we have fell instantly in love with them. (pictures to come in the coming days)
After taking them back to their house for bedtime, we enjoyed some dinner with another couple that is also adopting from GSF, one of their set of parents, and Claudia. After much awaited showers, we are now settling in under our mosquitoe nets and listening to strange new animal calls outside as we quickly fell asleep.
Thank you for all who have prayed for our safe arrival.
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Uganda Bound
I've decided to be kind of hush hush about our upcoming addition of two little ones to our family. Mostly out of respect for the process, but also because I've been guarding my heart. And while the guarding of my heart absolutely must continue until legal guardianship of Caleb and Hannah has been granted, I'm preparing to give a couple pieces of it away. Chad and I will be leaving Sunday (yes, Sunday...I know, right?!) to begin the process of bringing them home. Leaving the five to bring home the two. Kinda feels like we're living the parable of the lost sheep.
We're going to be gone a couple weeks and will most likely have to return to Uganda to finalize in January. I'll be documenting our travels here. If you are reading this, I would ask you to please pray for our family. It humbles me to think anyone actually reads this, BTW. But to know people are lifting our names up to the Father would be the most humbling, wonderful knowledge of all. He started this work in us, and we are confident He will be faithful to complete it.
We're going to be gone a couple weeks and will most likely have to return to Uganda to finalize in January. I'll be documenting our travels here. If you are reading this, I would ask you to please pray for our family. It humbles me to think anyone actually reads this, BTW. But to know people are lifting our names up to the Father would be the most humbling, wonderful knowledge of all. He started this work in us, and we are confident He will be faithful to complete it.
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